Unfortunately, I find it either doesn't do much for me or makes it too easy to hit my cervix bouncing up and down. AliWolf Xper 4. On top is nice but not my fave position. Puts a lot of pressure on my lady bits and its uncomfortable. Some girls love it, others not so much. If you love it, you gotta find a girl that loves it too. Meldee09 50 opinions shared on Sexuality topic. Xper 5. Personally i don't always like it. I have a bit of a tummy and i get self conscious when i'm on top.
BillieJean 5. I don't mind it occasionally but prefer missionary, then switching to doggy. KatherineJ 8. Occasionally as a treat for my husband, but I prefer him to be in charge during sex. You can do it subtly. Whilst you do this, you can enjoy being in control and tease his penis against your wet vagina.
Once he is inside you, and you can tell that you are both feeling comfortable, you are good to start riding — you go cowgirl! Once you are riding your man, there a still a few things that you need to be thinking about.
The first one is the fact that you should keep eye contact with him. Whether you are having sex with someone you are deeply in love with or you are having a one-night stand, sex is an intimate act. Eye contact not only makes everything sexier, but it allows you and your man to have a deep mental connection while you are connected in other physical ways. It can also be really satisfying to watch how your movements can control the way your man looks at you.
Whatever happens, eye contact is key. You are in charge, so you need to make sure you are not only enjoying yourself, but you are giving your man a great time too. If you are on top, of course, he will be loving it already. However, there are a few things that will make you both feel much more pleasure. Throughout having sex, you should still be kissing him.
As much as he will be enjoying you bouncing up and down on him, if he can feel your lips on his from time to time, it will give him such an amazing sensation. Kissing is also a really romantic thing to do, so it can turn the act of having sex into a passionate act of lovemaking.
You should also caress his body while you are riding him. If he can feel you all over his body, he will go crazy. This can be anything from running your hands up his chest, or gently grabbing his thighs. If you hold his thighs, it can also be useful for your balance or will give you a little bit more strength if you start to feel tired.
You can lean your chest down on to his and let him feel your breasts against his skin. He might also feel invited to caress your breasts or your waist when you do this. If you know that he is especially attracted to breasts, he will love that you are doing this. While you lean down to be closer to him, you can whisper things in his ear. Tell him how good it feels to be on top of him or tell him what you want to do to him. You will be stimulating his mind as well as his penis.
The final thing you can do is make sure that you smell nice. You could maybe add a splash of perfume on, and he will go crazy over your sweet scent. However, men love it when you change it up a little bit.
So, if you feel like you have been bouncing up and down for a little while, it might be a great idea to change your style. Start to circle your hips round and round.
Imagine that you are trying to feel his penis in every single corner of you. Really grind all over him. Enjoy it, slowly use circular motions with your hips. He will be able to feel that he is going deep inside of you, and it will probably bring him to climax faster than before. It will also probably feel better for you.
If you move fast while you try to do this, you might hurt him. Following on from the previous point, you should alternate between riding slow and riding fast. If you try to ride him fast the whole time, you will tire yourself out very quickly.
So, my advice would be to start off slowly. Start by slowly moving up and down on his penis , and you will be able to sense from him what he enjoys. If he grabs your hips and tries to move you up and down at a faster pace than you are going, go with it and start to move faster.
Once you have been moving fast for a while, start to slow down the pace and start moving your hips round see point 5. This will also be really useful for you to take a breather if you do feel out of breath or tired.
Everyone has different needs in bed, and sometimes certain positions just don't work the way we hoped they would.
Bustle asked seven women what it really feels like for them when they're in the cowgirl position, and their answers are further proof that every vagina is unique, and that everyone has different sexual preferences — which, IMHO, is a very, very good thing, because it keeps life interesting.
By Laken Howard. The clitoris is not 5 inches deep into your vagina. As such, you're often going to want to grind against your partner in this position, and we hear that feels pretty fucking good. Cleanup is the worst … for him at least. I repeat: his belly button. This position is ripe for brain trauma. It might be a good idea to do a post-sex concussion check just in case. Follow Frank on Twitter.
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